what makes you paint others with a broad brush? is it fair?
i'm saddened by the fact that i've had numerous encounters as of late where i've witnessed blatant bigotry...and i was spineless every time. i didn't speak up. i did nothing. even worse, i may have even chuckled with the "joke" on the outside while my heart within me was broken.
i'm not sure how to confront it.
if a person is born in a communist country, does it devalue their personhood? do you see him/her as a person...or a "commi?"
what if a person is homeless? do you curse them under your breath or in your mind? wait until later so that you can mock them with your friends? do you avoid their stench at all costs? is your fear rational? have you heard stories about how dangerous they are? do you have a just reason to superimpose that story on every homeless person? would you believe me if i told you from experience that he/she is more afraid of you than you are of him/her?
did you know that no one can steal from you, if you give to them? it doesn't even have to be $, just a conversation will suffice.
what if i told you that if you treated them with human dignity and looked them in the eyes, you could help restore them? would you believe that? or would you choose to believe only the cynical stories?
i'm i naive?
wow...that's a lot of rhetorical questions.
what's always separated our species is our ability to sympathize, or even empathize.
"when we let go of our compassion, we lose claim to whatever divinity we had." -bruce springstein
by the way, i'm not going to be silent next time.
Sunday, August 24, 2008
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Ben, Your post hits home for me. Circa 1980: New Jersey, I'm 26 and in a new job as an RN in a Newborn ICU. Someone on staff makes an ethnic joke-doesn't matter which ethnicity, and I too chuckled. I immediately felt badly about my behavior. My charge nurse, whom I had the utmost respect for said "there is nothing funny about jokes that make fun of people, their race or their religion. I have always made an effort after that experience to think before I laugh or speak in a negative way. That doesn't mean I have been perfect in my efforts but I am ALWAYS aware of what I say...looks like things don't really change. (Someday I'll figure our how to sign in as me and not anonymous)...Linda
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